Journey in the shore of Malayalam Movies

Kerala.....

Being a costal karnataka guy,this state is  not so unusual or unknowing to me,childhood memories including lungi,coconut trees and water terrain landscapes,beautiful beaches,holiday spots all are comes into the picture when I feel it first..But anything other than this... I dont think not much would have..!!!


Watching films was not a main hobby of me..As usual love stories once in a while appearing super star movies etc are became stereotypic and never caught the attention again and again.It made me to look for a change in selecting the movie types and started watching some south indian movies of tamil and  malayalam with a touch of nostrils accent in it,However being a kanndiga it was not difficult to catch and make out the words when they come out of their mouth.. :)


It was unplanned that i wanted to watch movies of malayalam when I am fed up all other language ,started with a malayalam movies

Highlight of some main things in the recent past Malayalam movies are like this

1) Drishyam:

Mohanlal was somewhere known to us as he was known malayalam actor,but never expected the story of Drishyam and his acting was would be so immense and family depended that is so nicely narrated.Soon after its success, telgu,kannada have done the remake of it.

There comes the tendency of me to know more about malayalam movies,which helped me to gaze some of the recent time movies appeared in the screen


2)Fahad Fazil
Never heard  of called Fahad Fazil,with his first look i thought a numb actor with single phase of acting in his display (as we thought most of  the time with a hero with his consecutive appearances),But wait I saw Daimond Neckless,22Female Kottayam,Bangalore days,One by two and Iyobinte Pustakam,It was something I liked by his appearance and way of narrating his dailogue on different roles,and stories were completely different from one to another and they were nothing short of spreading in inter national level too...

3) nivin pauly and dulqur salman

Young age characters are always needed to impress audience on their breakthrough and rocking attitude.But many doesnt take a sudden drift on the types which are likely to come in different movies
may be nivin has impressed me alot with his movies of tattattil malayattu,1983 and of course bangalore days.
Dulqur looks to be proper actor with a beauty of aggression and patience in him Ustad Hotel,Pattam Pole and vikramadityan seem to be nice enjoyable movies of him

Of course a special mention on "Bangalore Days".It is somewhat rediculous to see no one in kannada has never had a thought on lifestyle of "new bangalore lifestyle".May be Keralites likes Bangalore very much it seems.The expression and hype on bangalore is so much that being a resident of this place I feel so happy to see someone has expressed concern  on bangalore in movies.


Last Thoughts:
Few movies of malayalam are best script based ,having said that its not having much attention though in a larger scale in names or branding,But it appears to be slowly the trend is changing.
It seem to be sad sometime when a honest kannada speaking people are looking and waiting for some good kannada movies on theatres but its always dissapointing to see that none of the past movies have made a sound or became competent with other language movies.This caused the drifting a pool of minds(like me)to look for watching movies of malayalam or some other languages which makes most of well constructed stories !!!!!

ತಂತ್ರಜ್ಞ-ಯಾನ

(ಇದು ಕಾಲ್ಪನಿಕ ಮಾತ್ರ .. ಆದ್ರೆ ತಮ್ಮ ಹಳೆ ಜೀವನದ ಬಗ್ಗೆ ಯೋಚಿಸ್ತಿರೋಕೆಲವು  techies ಗಳಲ್ಲಿ ಈ ತರ ಭಾವನೆ ಬರೋದು ಮಾತ್ರ  ಸತ್ಯ )...
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ಅದೊಂದು  ಸುಂದರವಾದ ಮುಂಜಾನೆ ,"ಬೆಂದಕಾಳೂರಿನ outskirts ಮತ್ತೆ costly area "ಎಂದು ಹೇಳ್ತಿರು ಆ ಲೇಔಟ್ ಅಲ್ಲಿ ಸಿಗ್ನಲ್ ಬಿಡೋದನ್ನ ಕಾಯ್ತಾ ಇರ್ವಾಗ  ಒಬ್ಬ ಡಿಗ್ರಿ ಮುಗಿಸಿದ ಯುವಕ ತನ್ನ resume file ನೊಂದಿಗೆ  tip top ಆಗಿ..  ಭಯ, ಅವಸರದಿಂದ ರಸ್ತೆ ದಾಟುತ್ತ ಇದ್ದ ದೃಶ್ಯ correct ಆಗಿ  ಕಂಡ್ತಾ ಇತ್ತು  .

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 ಎಲ್ಲಿಂದಲೊ Flash back ಅವಾಗ  ಮನಸ್ಸಿಗೆ ಬಂತು...

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ಬೆಂಗಳೂರು.  ಅಲ್ಲಿ ನಿನ್ skill ಗೆ ಒಳ್ಳೆ job ಸಿಕ್ಕೆ ಸಿಗುತ್ತೆ ಬಿಡು ಗುರು ಅಂತ ನಮ್ ದೋಸ್ತ ಯಾವಾಗ್ಲೂ ಹೇಳ್ತಿದ್ದ,ಎಲ್ಲೋ ಒಂದು ಕಡೆ ಕಾಲೇಜ್ ಟೈಮ್ ಅಲ್ಲಿ ಮಾಡ್ತಿದ್ದ effort ಗಳು ಯಾಕೋ waste ಅನ್ಸ್ಬಿಟ್ಟಿದ್ವು . ಆ night out  ಗಳು,  ಬೇಡ ಅಂದ್ರು ಲೆಕ್ಚರರ್ ಗಳಿಗೆ  sincere ಅಂತ ತೊರ್ಸ್ಕೊತಿದ್ದ ದಿನಗಳು,exam ನಲ್ಲಿ ಒಳ್ಳೆ ಮಾರ್ಕ್ಸ್ಗಾಗಿ ಪರಿ ಪರಿಯಾಗಿ ಮಾಡ್ತಿದ್ದ ಪ್ರಯತ್ನಗಳು  ಎಲ್ಲ ಒಂದೇ ಸಮಯಕ್ಕೆ change ಆಗ್ಬಿಟ್ವು .

ಎಲ್ಲೋ ನಮ್ ದೊಡ್ಡವರು ಒಂದ್ ಮಾತ್  ಹೇಳಿದ್ರು "ಗುರುವಿನ ಗುಲಾಮ ಆಗೋ ತನಕ ದೊರೆಯುವದಿಲ್ಲ  ಮುಕ್ತಿ " ಅಂತ  ಸಧ್ಯ ನಾವು ಗುಲಾಮ ಅಗ್ಬಿಟ್ವಿ. ತತ್ವ  ಸಿದ್ದಾಂತ ಒಂದೊಂದ್ಸಲ ಒಳ್ಳೆದನ್ಸುತ್ತೆ ಆದ್ರೆ ಅಧ್ನ follow ಮಾಡೋಕ್ ಮಾತ್ರ ಆಗಲ್ಲಾರಿ ...

ಕಾಲೇಜ್ ಅಲ್ಲೇನೋ ಕಂಪನಿ ಗಳು ಬಂದವು,  ನಾಳೆ ನಾನು ಒಂದಲ್ಲಾ ಒಂದು  ಕಂಪನಿ ಲಿ ವರ್ಕ್ ಮಾಡ್ತೀನಿ ಅಂತ ಒಳ ಮನಸ್ಸು ಹೇಳ್ತಾ ಇತ್ತು .. ಆದ್ರೆ ಗುರು  "interview easily clear" ಮಾಡೋಕಾಗುತ್ತೆ  ಅನ್ನೋ ವಿಷ್ಯ ಮಾತ್ರ ತಪ್ಪಾಯ್ತು.

aptitude ಬರ್ದ್ವಿ  answer correct  ಆಗಿದ್ಕಿಂತ ತಪ್ಪಾಗಿದ್ದೆ  ಜಾಸ್ತಿ ,ನನ್ನ ನಾ defend ಮಾಡೋಕೆ  out  of syllabus ಅಂತ ಹೆಳ್ಕೊಂಡೆ ,ಆದ್ರೆ ಓದದೇ   ಬರ್ದೇ ಇರೋದು ,so  called "known"  ಮಿಸ್ಟೇಕ್ ಆಗಿತ್ತು.

placement process  ಏನೋ ಸ್ಮೂತ್ ಆಗಿ ಹೋಗ್ತಾ ಇತ್ತು , ಎಲ್ಲೋ ನಮ್ ಹೆಸ್ರು selected list  ಅಲ್ಲಿ ಎಲ್ಲು  ಬರ್ಲಿಲ್ಲ, ಬಿಡು  ಗುರು next ಕಂಪನಿ ಗೆ ಟ್ರೈ ಮಾಡೋಣ  ಅಂತ  ಸಮಾಧಾನ ಮಾಡ್ಕೊಂಡೆ.

 ಈ  ತರ ತುಂಬಾ ಕಂಪನಿ ಗಳು ಬಂದವು,ಕೊನೆ round ತಂಕ ಹೋಗೊ capacity ಹಂತ ಹಂತ ವಾಗಿ ಬಂದವು ಆದ್ರೆ ಹಾಳಾದ್ದು ಈ HR ಇಂಟರ್ವ್ಯೂ ನೆ full torture ಆಗ್ತಿತ್ತು . ಕ್ಲಾಸ್ ಅಲ್ಲಿ ಎಲ್ರು job holders ಅನ್ಸ್ಕೊಂಡಿದ್ರು ಆದ್ರೆ ನಾನ್ಮಾತ್ರ ಎಲ್ಲಾ efforts ಮಾಡಿ ಎನೂ ಇಲ್ದೆ ಇರೋ ಹಂಗೆ ಆಗ್ಬಿಟ್ಟಿದ್ದೆ ....
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ಹಾಗೆ ಹೀಗೆ ಮಾಡಿ ಆ ವರ್ಷ ಮುಗ್ದಿತ್ತು....  ಡಿಗ್ರಿ ನಮ್ ಕಯ್ಯಲ್ಲಿತ್ತು.

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...ಕೆಲ್ಸ ಬೇಕಾದ ಕಾರಣ ,ಅನಿವಾರ್ಯವಾಗಿ  ಬೆಂಗಳೂರು ನನ್ನ  ಕೈ ಬಿಸಿ ಕರ್ದಿತ್ತು

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ಜಾಬ್ ಹುಡ್ಕೋ ವಿಷಯದಲ್ಲಿ ನಾವು ಬಚ್ಚಾಗಳಗಿದ್ವಿ.. ಕಂಪನಿ ಗಳಲ್ಲಿ openings ಗಳಿವೆ ಅಂದಾಗ ಹೆಂಗಾದ್ರೂ ಹೋಗಿ attend ಮಾಡಿ ಬರೋದು ಒನ್ದ್ತರ  routine ಆದಂಗಾಗೊಯ್ತು ,ಹೋಗ್ತಾ ಹೋಗ್ತಾ ಬೆಂಗಳೂರು ನ ಗಲ್ಲಿ ಗಳು common areas ಆಗೋದ್ವು ...

 life ಒಂದತರ ನಿಂತ  ನೀರಾಗೊಯ್ತು ,ಕೆಲಸ ಒಂದಲ್ಲ ಒಂದಿನ ಸಿಗುತ್ತೆ ಅನ್ನೋ ಭರವಸೆಯೇ ನಮಗೆ ಖುಷಿ ಕೊಡೊ ವಿಚಾರವಾಯಿತು ...

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ಕತ್ಲೆ  ಆದ್ಮೇಲೆ ಬೆಳ್ಕು  ಬರ್ಲೇ ಬೇಕಲ್ಲ .. ಆ ದಿನ ಬಂದೆ ಬಿಡ್ತು...   MNC ಲಿ  ಕೆಲಸ ಸಿಕ್ತು .. ಮರಭೂಮಿ ಲಿ ಓಯಸಿಸ್ ಸಿಕ್ದಂಗ್ ಆಯ್ತು ನೋಡಿ ..cloud 9 ಅಲ್ಲೇ ಇದ್ದೇ  ಅನ್ಸುತ್ತೆ :)..

MNC ಅಂದ್ರೆ ಕೇಳ್ಬೇಕಾ .. ಅವರದ್ದೇ ತರಹೆ ವಾರಿ ರೂಲ್ಸ್ ಗಳು..ಎಲ್ಲ ಮೊದ್ ಮೊದ್ಲು ಕಷ್ಟ ಆದವು ಆದ್ರೆ ಅವೇ ರೂಢಿ ಆಗೋಯ್ತು . ಮೊದ್ಲಿನ್ದಾನು ಆದಷ್ಟು ಕನ್ನಡ ದಲ್ಲೇ ಮಾತಾಡೋದ್ ಇಷ್ಟ ಕಣ್ರೀ ..  ಕನ್ನಡದವರು ಕಂಡ್ರೆ ಅವರು  ಇಂಗ್ಲಿಷ್ ಅಲ್ಲಿ ಮಾತಡ್ಸ್ರು ಆದಷ್ಟು ಕನ್ನಡದಲ್ಲೇ  ಮಾತಾಡೋನು ನಾನು ..

ಕೆಲಸ ಚೆನ್ನಾಗಿ ನಡೀತಾ ಇತ್ತು  .. ಹೋಗ್ತಾ ಹೋಗ್ತಾ ೫ ವರ್ಷಾನೇ ಕಳ್ದೊಯ್ತು .. ಎಲ್ಲ ಅನುಕೂಲ ಇದ್ರೂ ನಾವೆಲ್ಲೋ ಬೇರೆ ಜಗತ್ತಿನ ದಾಸ್ರಗ್ಬಿಟ್ವಿ ಅನ್ಸ್ತಾ ಇತ್ತು .. college ಅಲ್ಲಿರೋ closeliness  ಆ care  ಇಂದ ತುಂಬಾ ದೂರ ಆಗ್ಬಿಟ್ವಿ ...

ಚೆನ್ನಾಗಿರೋ   ಬಟ್ಟೆ ಕಂಡ್ರು branded clothes ಅಗ್ಬೇಕೆನ್ನೋ boundary ಹಾಕೊಬಿಟಿದ್ವಿ .. ಕೊನೆಗೆ ಅನ್ಸಿದ್ದು "ನಾನು ನಾನಾಗಿರಲಿಲ್ಲ"  ..
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ಒಂದ್ ಕಾಲ್ದಲ್ಲಿ  ಮೊಬೈಲ್ ಫೋನ್ ಅಂದ್ರೇನೆ ಗೊತ್ತಿರ್ಲಿಲ್ಲ.. ಈಗ  ಅದಿಲ್ಲಾ ಅಂದ್ರೆ ಒಂದ್  ಕ್ಷಣಾನು ಕಳೆಯಕ್ಕಗಲ್ಲಾ,
Facebook ,twitter ಗಳು ನಮ್ ಜೀವನದ ಅವಿಭಾಜ್ಯ ಅಂಗಗಳೊ ಎಂಬಂತೆ ಆಗೋಗಿದೆ ,ಜನ ಯಾವ್ದೋ virtual world ಅಲ್ಲಿ ತಮ್ಮ fantasy ಹುಡ್ಕ್ತಾ ಇದಾರೆ  ಅನ್ಸ್ಬಿಟ್ಟಿದೆ.. 


 .. ಈ corporate ರೂಲ್ಸ್ ಗಳು ಈ faking smile ಗಳು ನಮ್ಮ ತನವನ್ನು ಬುಡಸಮೇತ ಕೀಳುತ್ತಿದೆ.ಎಲ್ಲವು ದುಡ್ಡಿಗೋಸ್ಕರ ಎಲ್ಲವು ಸ್ವಹಿತಕ್ಕೊಸ್ಕರ ಅನ್ನೋ ಮನೋಭಾವನೆ .. ಬಾಲ್ಯದಿಂದ ಕಲಿತಿದ್ದ "ಕೂಡಿ ಬಾಳಿದರೆ ಸ್ವರ್ಗ ಸುಖ "ಅನ್ನೋ ವಿಚಾರ ಬದಲಾಯಿತು  . ಇತರ ರಾಜ್ಯದ ಜನರಂತೆ ಮಾತೃ  ಭಾಷೆಗೆ ಗೌರವ ಅನಿಯಮಿತವಾಗಿ ನಶಿಸುತ್ತಿದೆ ಅನ್ನೋದು ಬಹುಬೇಗನೆ ಮನಸಿಗೆ ನಾಟಿತು.
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Suddenly ಹಿಂದಿಂದ ಹಾರ್ನ್ ಹೊಡ್ಯೊ ಶಬ್ದ ಕೇಳ್ತು .. ಒಹ್ !! ಸಿಗ್ನಲ್ ಬಿಡ್ತು...flashback ಅಲ್ಲಿ ಸುತ್ ತಾ ಇದ್ದ ನಾನು  ವರ್ತಮಾನಕ್ಕೆ ಅವಾಗ್ಲೇ ಬಂದೆ .. ಎನೋ ಒಂದ್ತರ ಮುಖದಲ್ಲಿ ಕಿರುನಗು  ಬಂತು, LETS GET BACK TO WORK.. ಅಂತ ಮನಸ್ಸು  ಹೇಳ್ತು ........ !!







 

"DREAM ON.................. !!!!!!! "

                                                  
             Sing with me, sing for the years
                 Sing for the laughter, sing for the tears
                 Sing with me, if its just for today
                 Maybe tomorrow the good lord will take you away

                   Lines of aero smith in the song "dream on"..!!! Must be very true when we feel it...................... It's been a while things looks normal.. Some great personality said "time takes you to wonderland when you have patience in you",I think slowly I am experiencing that..............

                        Its been a matter of some 8 months of strange life I would say and some good things happened to me after all.Some time I feel ,I made some kindaa record on those time,I never know how the table has turned upside down since from 2005.....!!having a bad time during the process of interviews,attended some 38 interviews,around 16 final rounds and misses the target by a wisker....!!It had became a common thing for me after all.

                        But I found that fear,tension and panic are something that can be controlled by our intellectual sense.I used to get under pressure during the time of my results after exams till my PUC.. But life has helped me alot to overcome such situation by putting me into different conditions ..!!!!!

                       It was my 3rd semester Engineering ,network analysis was making a "devil's play" on me..I was a over confident guy till that time as I had a dream run in my scores.. But ... when I got my results,I was not at all in a condition to believe it.... Very first time in my educational career I was Failed. In the end I managed to find the correct reason for the failure,and went on to do reasonably fine performance..  But the important thing which I learnt was "If u make your brain stronger than your heart,you can actually survive in this earth".

                      I saw many guys struggling alot for job,roaming in the dust and traveling along for the faint desire of get settle in life,but surely they have their good time to come.But its a good thing that some how I got a good lesson in the past time, by that I can gather some  strength to face the tough time in the future...

And finally The song "DREAM ON" goes along with the past memory I had .....!!!!!

                      

                  I know what nobody knows
                  Where it comes and where it goes
                  I know its everybody's sin
                  You got to lose to know how to win................!!!!

LIFE OF A "WANDERER"

Life opens a big a door after the completion of my graduation,may be the dreams haven't achieved yet but the observations and new ideas made a great heap of facts that are running around in my brain quite often !!!

Personal descriptions of achieving a certain goal is still on,but understanding a new life as a "wanderer " made a new tag in me.Roaming in a metro city has made a great experience within myself.Experience of understanding the truth lies behind people's mind, their attitude,their shifted focus everything has just produced a great impact on me.When dealing with the life experiences and allow them to produce some good advantage for me looks certain now.

Human life is a great state,when you are a kid people like to come towards you,they hug you and if you are little cute then they start love you also.As the life progresses big burdens puts you in a fix.Situation demands a lot from you.Some time you feel like "OH !! I BECAME A DERBY HORSE".Soon after the state shifts when you are a male bachelor,people start attacking you more often every time.

Sometime the "dragging" power makes you isolate from the real interest you have,just like a wonderrer.You have to perform alot of role at a time,it looks rather amazing at that moment but soon you will understand its your incapability that you are degraded from your original state.After some days when comforts are well equipped you are completely ignored from where you are standing and situating,in the end you are literally thrown out without any hesitation!!

Life takes a tragic end until "he" finds its a big blow to him,to be alone is a good solution but its not as easy as it's seems.Looks to drag alot to make a change,but "Wanderer" put's his effort always.


Some words are silent, some are making pain
Persistently modified within as a stain
May be the things looks too easy to deal
But emotional matters are adverse to feel !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

NEW LIFE...................................... !!!!!!!!!!!!!! ( part 1 )

Some time I wonder that how changes are taking place very quickly.Being a village lad I was lucky to see how things are making great effects on our life styles.
There are lot of events in my childhood I still remember ,some of them are here..............

1) It was a great time on that day when I just entered my first grade class...I was wondered that there were nobody in the class other than me !!! just in that moment I found another guy just entering the class.. It was a small class room where barely we can get a space to sit comfortably.....

2) There was cricket boom all around,small kids like me getting more interest in watching cricket match all day and there was another activity which we were like to do always...That's collecting cricket players photos !! But there was also some * PUNISHMENTS* by parents as we were accessively wasting money

3) That was the time when ENGLISH was taking more priority in schools,parents were rushing to put their children into ENGLISH MEDIUM SCHOOLS... and I was also the victim for that revolution (?)..but It was just another awkward encounter with my mates of the class.It was just a tough time all together, and I just quit that "medium" within a month...

4) It was a matter of 6 km from my home to school by paying just 1 rupee to bus..during the journey it was a great time to experience the very beautiful scenery that everybody wish to see..

5) After head out from native to learn graduation,It became just a different experience again. Forceful acceptance of new culture,new goals,new modification and more over new life styles have made a great impact on what was actually present.

And so there we are,16 years of great experience is just a handful of note for me.Some thing which I can compare those things again,with the present day scenario

1) Now we can observe the facilities which is provided by schools is really marvelous.. We can find laptops,iphones on the hands of 6 year children.

2)Guys of this age are preferring computer video games and other stuffs which they can get fun inside in their home only, much importantly parents of this age are taking care of their children with great deal so children can get all sorts of things in their hand.

3)ENGLISH is a core language as it was before,but new age parents trying more as they can make ready their children for a great sea of competetive exams....

4)school children became just like astro"nuts".... they are carrying loads of books which involuntarily making problems on their health. They are missing the core content of education.

5) Slow disappearance of culture really making alot for this society,western culture has made a big impact on the lives of youth.
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Curious journey....with curious results........!!

Time just goes on....Mr.jack is in final year of his engineering.He is bit hesitating guy, who was generally not involving with his colleagues.Things are highly worse in the college, the system made him unable to maintain a "grand touch" with his subjects.Surprise tests, quizzes,internals,9hrs of class and keeping himself correct in his hostel routine ... all these just pushed him to a depression and made him out of interest on the studies...
But Jack strongly believed that the skills of communication and convincing the people was strongly with him, "Even though the less marks it doesn't matter I can manage to hold up in a company"
The first dream option to place in a company was there in the corner and that time Jack made some changes in himself by improving his skills of representation a topic,group discussions etc..
Yes the company arrived, Jack cleared first round comfortably .. hoping for his turn for the interview,But wait.... there is some thing we have to observe company made a sudden change in rule they will provide the direct opportunity to appear in interview,Oh..... rumors are going on that all those who have direct entry will surely hold up the chance,left behind some odd guys like Jack despite their better performance in communication skills..
So then the results are announced as expected Jack is out of the list,all along things not went with him
After some 3 months Jack had appeared for some 13 companies , 5 final rounds,3 second rounds........ "BUT NEVER GOT PLACED".... may be the life has given some great lesson to Jack because being simple doesn't makes any change, probably the a new ERA for developing of new skills required.. Jack thought of all these, he understood to improvise some of his natural skills....... Story is not ended it's still continuing with the time :)

my first experiance as a "MATURE"

SO ....It was a brand new year 2008.. is.getting an engineering seat is not a prior that time.In the course of study there is always have tendency to do some thing other creative work.With the factor that we are in the autonomous institution.. it was very tough to do the latter.
We heard love ,romance in films only.As a boy from rural background you cant get more...
It was athe first mid sem of my 3 semester... I suddenly got the message in the evening time.A business card asked to save her no:I wonder why it was grand old classmate with whom I was never talk in yhe past.Yes I saved her no: it was a nice to ve a new friend especially a girl.Yes we we agreed to ve a long discussin in the cell.
Obviously it was a nice time but the friendship was taking a new dimension.............She asked me to become the person of her life.I was bit confuesd as it was a time where you cant ask for any thing so silly.. I thought finally we agreed for the commitment..
It was some time after when we understood that we are getting problem in chatting in the cell.few days after she found me some other girl giving a scrap to me in orkut by complemanting on my new hair style I ve started a friendship with by giving the scrap.I ve given my no. also.... I think that was my big mistake..My girl got angry with that and what was happened that was tragedy..
But I wonder now the girl whom i really care is no more on the similar manner.. She found almost 15 boy.... everybody is in the gentle touch with her with the fact that she is playing a game with me is not false..
any ways It was my life's first love which was a tragic end....